What is it that you're missing from your childhood?

Inspirational Messages For Your Heart and Soul

​Unconsciously, we seek what we never had as children.

In our search for completion, we strive to find friendships, romantic partners or jobs that will fill the void from our childhood.  If you felt unsafe as a child growing up with your parents/guardians, you will unconsciously seek relationships that are unsafe.  It seems ironic, but patterns of living we grew up with become unconscious patterns we use to choose our friendships, romantic partners and careers.
 
If your childhood was one where you were constantly shouted at by your parents, you will unconsciously form relationships that frequently involve that type of communication where the other does not feel heard.  Patterns of behaviour that you created to survive within an emotionally, mentally and physically abusive family environment become unconscious.  They become the norm and so become unconscious patterns of relating to other humans.

​When you encounter people who trigger emotional reactions within you, they are uncovering responses to situations you created for yourself in childhood.  My job is to help you unpick them:  identify the triggers and the responses and when they first began.  When you understand the reasons for your responses, you can learn to understand your defences with compassion and learn a new way of being with yourself.
 
You can learn to love yourself by nurturing those parts of you that felt injured, abandoned and rejected as a child.